If you have been dating a man for a while and the two of you haven’t talked about being exclusive, chances are he is only casually dating you. But as a woman you can actually set things up from the very beginning that moves a man in direction of being committed to you and only you. So below I am going to share 3 simple things you can do to that will make a man want to be exclusive with you.
Be Clear About What You Want From The Very Beginning
If you are looking for an exclusive person to date, let that be known from the beginning. That way everyone can be on the same page. If he knows where you stand, he can let you know if he is looking for that as well. If he isn’t move on and find someone who is. When telling a man you are looking for something exclusive don’t do it in an overbearing way.
Instead just say hey, if you want to date other women that is okay, but I am looking for something exclusive. So before we go any further, I wanted to make sure we were on the same page.” You are not being needy and you are not being demanding. You are just stating what you want. Any man will respect that. And if he isn’t ready he will let you know.
Maintain Your Power
As a woman you never want to be in a position where you are asking a man where the two of you stand. This does two things. It puts you in a very vulnerable position and it gives him all the power. And as silly as it may sound, doing this will make him feel less attracted to you. So maintain your power.
The way you do this is by living your life. Never try to convince him to do something he really doesn’t want to do. Have your standards and stick with them. It’s okay to be selective. Men actually find that attractive.
As I just stated, men like it when you are selective. Men don’t like it when a woman falls head over hills for him too easily. That is a big turn off. If you fall too quickly it will make you look very needy. No one wants someone who is super needy. It’s too draining. But when a woman is sure about what she wants and she is selective, that shows she is fine on her own.
She doesn’t need him and that makes him want her even more. When a woman is selective it tells that man she is going to go on and have a full and rich life with or without him. It shows him you have the power to choose him or not choose him. When a man sees this he all of a sudden wants to make sure he is the guy you choose. Generally speaking this will lead to him wanting something exclusive and committed.