If I were to make a list of the Do’s and Don’ts for anniversaries, “Do not forget it.” would make it to number one. Number two would be “Make it unforgettable.” If you will think about it, the words forget and unforgettable are more of relatives in the English world. However they really mean differently.
“Do not forget it.”It’s plain it simple, if you fail to remember the day you said “I do.” or the day she said “Yes.” that made your relationship official, you are most absolutely dead. You just dug your own grave man. So, if you don’t want to die just yet, better make sure that this day is never forgotten.
How will you make this very special they etched in that memory of yours?
Man, with the technology we have today, you have all the weaponry to not forget this date and win the battle against death.
Do you have a cellular phone? I bet you do. And I will be surprised if that mobile phone of yours does not have an organizer where you can set an alarm for birthdays, anniversaries and other significant dates. Why don’t you dedicate a minute or two of your time by putting this date and have your alarm turned on? So that you won’t forget. It’s actually simple, right?
If you want to be sure, what is your e-mail’s calendar doing? It also takes less than five minutes to fix your e-mail calendar for this thing. While waiting for an e-mail from a client, why don’t you work on this task? You will surely be thankful and proud of yourself when the time comes. Because you failed to forget!
Make use of Facebook. I’m sure you have one! Who doesn’t these days, right? At the upper right corner of your Facebook page, you will see the word “Events” written in bold. Below it is a box with a question “What are you planning?” Write it down. Then RSVP her. I’m sure she will be pleased.
“Make it unforgettable.”
Honestly, there are thousands of ways to make this special day unforgettable for the both of you. The first step though is not to forget – that is.
In making this day very special and unforgettable all you need to do is have some preparations. Ask yourself. What do you love doing together? What is it that you want to try together? What is she dying to have these days? These questions will help you decide on how you will be able to make your anniversary unforgettable.
What do you love doing together?
Of course, in gracing this event, the enjoyment should not be one way. Both of you should be able to enjoy it. Do you like to eat good food? Then, it’s time to reserve a table for two at a very cozy restaurant that promises excellent food. Do you both love to read books? How about attending a book or poetry reading together? Then ask the organizer to allow you read a poem you’ve made for your better half on that day. That would be very heart warming.
What is it that you want to try together?
You might have been together for so long. It would be nice to try something new. Then do so. Skydiving perhaps? Or a European tour? I’m sure there is something there that could make your list.
What is she dying to have these days?
Anniversaries won’t be complete without the right present. It’s a must have. So, be observant. Look for hints. I’m sure she will give you hints as the day gets nearer. Just pay attention and you will surely be able to find the answer to this question. You will be able to wrap the perfect anniversary gift and tie it with a ribbon of her favorite color.